People Who Provoke Extreme Reactions In Others
I’m trying to get the stories about my husband together, but it’s easier said than done! In working to locate the various writing from various places, I continue to mull my experience with, Shack Man. Apparently. I’m in another one of those times, when you mull your relationship life.
I went through this in 2006. I had been with the AMF for three years, but the relationship was beginning to fail. I was talking to, Scott, and in fact, went to go visit him. I also got back in contact with my husband.
Everyone knew what I was doing. Further, I was writing about it in real time. They were entertained and interested to read what I’d say! But this was serious for me. Saturn was transiting my 7th house and I was under pressure to to sort this stuff, for real.
I think so much has happened in my life, I have to write the story, to know what happened! Pull the dialogue our of my psyche; see what I think now as opposed to what I thought then. In mulling everything, I realized in the, Shack story, everyone had an extreme reaction to me. Love or Hate. Realizing this, jolted me.
I can’t say I understand it, really. 8th house, sure, but what’s that really saying?
I seems to me, my behavior is consistent. I spend time with people who want to spend time with me, and don’t bother anyone else. I am never doing something to someone, or retaliating or teaching them a lesson, or manipulating them or threatening them or anything else. I’m there if you want me there and I want to be there. If you don’t want me to be there, or if I don’t want to be there, then I’m not.
My behavior is highly modulated by this criteria. It seems clear, even-handed and sane. So why the extreme reaction?
My husband has the same issue. He says it like this: “He/She doesn’t just hate me, they want me, dead! Morte!”
Do you know who provoke extreme reactions in others? Are you like this? What’s the deal?
My husband says, in one of the old exchanges, “We never really fit in this world, P.”
Is that what this is?
